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Some Kind of Attitude
I was looking for my Tide pen. It wasn’t where I usually keep it, and I know that I only return it to that one specific drawer. “Where is...
Ophelia Adams
Feb 6, 20222 min read
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Winter Blues
It’s winter again, and I feel just as useless as I did last winter, at least in the writing department. In fact, I think it’s been well...
Ophelia Adams
Feb 2, 20222 min read
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A Very Short Guide to Interactive Fiction
Some interactive fiction games (like "The Closet" and "Pick Your Poison") have a choose-your-own-adventure structure. Others, such as...
Ophelia Adams
May 2, 20211 min read
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Where Have I Been?
In my living room, mostly. Sometimes locked in my office, crying for no reason during my lunch break. I kind of hit a pandemic wall, like...
Ophelia Adams
Apr 4, 20211 min read
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Anger: The Sexiest Emotion
As a spanko, I think I kind of fetishize anger (the appropriate amount of anger, not too much). To me, anger is the holy grail of a...
Ophelia Adams
Jan 22, 20212 min read
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30 Days of Submission Questions, Day 3
How do you know you are submissive or have the potential to be submissive? How do you feel when you express your submission? This is...
Ophelia Adams
Dec 27, 20202 min read
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Thanksgiving 2020
These last few weeks have been hellish at work, mostly because of my own tendency to leave tasks until right before the deadlines, and...
Ophelia Adams
Nov 27, 20203 min read
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The Weekend We Collectively Let Out a Sigh of Relief
I had an awful, no-good week, as I’m sure many other people did. I was wracked with anxiety and plagued with a sense of dread hanging...
Ophelia Adams
Nov 8, 20201 min read
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30 Days of Submission Questions, Day 2
Describe who you might submit to and how. Are you exclusively submissive in marriage or just in the bedroom? Are you submissive only in...
Ophelia Adams
Nov 5, 20202 min read
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30 Days of Submission Questions, Day 1
Does your submission – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label? Do you view your submission as Taken in Hand,...
Ophelia Adams
Nov 1, 20202 min read
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The Importance of a Desk
Here's my ideal study: dark wood, towering bookshelves, dust motes floating in the sunbeams, the peculiar smell of the library's top...
Ophelia Adams
Jul 12, 20192 min read
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A Baby Step in Communication
Last night, I asked Esq. for a spanking for the FIRST TIME in our three years of dating. Well--I had planned to ask clearly and openly,...
Ophelia Adams
Jun 24, 20192 min read
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An Open Letter to Non-Spanko Partners of Spanko Bottoms
Dear NSPoSB, Look, I hate the term “spanko”, but it is widely used to describe a person with very specific experiences. If your partner...
Ophelia Adams
Jan 21, 20183 min read
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Casual
Esq. keeps a clean house. He’s extremely Type A: organized, efficient, minimalist. I try to keep up, but compared to him I must look like...
Ophelia Adams
Dec 28, 20172 min read
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