Some Kind of Attitude
I was looking for my Tide pen. It wasn’t where I usually keep it, and I know that I only return it to that one specific drawer. “Where is...
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Ophelia Adams
- Feb 2, 2022
- 2 min
Winter Blues
It’s winter again, and I feel just as useless as I did last winter, at least in the writing department. In fact, I think it’s been well...
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Ophelia Adams
- May 2, 2021
- 1 min
A Very Short Guide to Interactive Fiction
Some interactive fiction games (like "The Closet" and "Pick Your Poison") have a choose-your-own-adventure structure. Others, such as...
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Ophelia Adams
- Apr 4, 2021
- 1 min
Where Have I Been?
In my living room, mostly. Sometimes locked in my office, crying for no reason during my lunch break. I kind of hit a pandemic wall, like...
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Ophelia Adams
- Jan 22, 2021
- 2 min
Anger: The Sexiest Emotion
As a spanko, I think I kind of fetishize anger (the appropriate amount of anger, not too much). To me, anger is the holy grail of a...
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Ophelia Adams
- Dec 27, 2020
- 2 min
30 Days of Submission Questions, Day 3
How do you know you are submissive or have the potential to be submissive? How do you feel when you express your submission? This is...
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Ophelia Adams
- Nov 27, 2020
- 3 min
Thanksgiving 2020
These last few weeks have been hellish at work, mostly because of my own tendency to leave tasks until right before the deadlines, and...
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Ophelia Adams
- Nov 8, 2020
- 1 min
The Weekend We Collectively Let Out a Sigh of Relief
I had an awful, no-good week, as I’m sure many other people did. I was wracked with anxiety and plagued with a sense of dread hanging...
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Ophelia Adams
- Nov 5, 2020
- 2 min
30 Days of Submission Questions, Day 2
Describe who you might submit to and how. Are you exclusively submissive in marriage or just in the bedroom? Are you submissive only in...
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Ophelia Adams
- Nov 1, 2020
- 2 min
30 Days of Submission Questions, Day 1
Does your submission – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label? Do you view your submission as Taken in Hand,...
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Ophelia Adams
- Jul 12, 2019
- 2 min
The Importance of a Desk
Here's my ideal study: dark wood, towering bookshelves, dust motes floating in the sunbeams, the peculiar smell of the library's top...
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Ophelia Adams
- Jun 24, 2019
- 2 min
A Baby Step in Communication
Last night, I asked Esq. for a spanking for the FIRST TIME in our three years of dating. Well--I had planned to ask clearly and openly,...
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Ophelia Adams
- Jan 21, 2018
- 3 min
An Open Letter to Non-Spanko Partners of Spanko Bottoms
Dear NSPoSB, Look, I hate the term “spanko”, but it is widely used to describe a person with very specific experiences. If your partner...
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Ophelia Adams
- Dec 28, 2017
- 2 min
Casual
Esq. keeps a clean house. He’s extremely Type A: organized, efficient, minimalist. I try to keep up, but compared to him I must look like...
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